Dear Allie, Lately at competitions, I've been noticing girls from other squads giving me and my team dirty looks. How do I handle mean girls at competitions? Sincerely, Cheerleader Dear Cheerleader, I’m so sorry you have had to encounter mean girls. Cheerleading competition is a lot like life. Whenever there are a lot a strong personalities under one roof to compete against one another, there are bound to be some unfriendly ones every now and then. Learning how to deal with that mean varsity cheerleader at competition is a skill you will take with you as you work on group projects in class, grow up and go to college and throughout your professional career. First, take comfort in knowing that your value as a human being is independent from the opinions and judgments of others. Who they perceive you to be doesn’t change who you actually are. Stay confident in yourself and your skills as a cheerleader, and never let another person cause you to question who you are. Secondly, never forget that you have no